Ok, so this is my first ever attempt at blogging and I’m kind of wishing Erica hadn’t set the bar so high. Alex and I visited the Governor Morehead Preschool for the Friday with Families “Music with Susan Erickson” special event. Even though it was a cold and rainy November day we were greeted with warm smiles by the teachers as they directed us into the mat room. Alex was fast asleep and I had to wake him up, which must have been confusing for him since I’m normally asking him to fall asleep. We started with “If you’re happy and you know it” and Alex was all smiles as I helped him clap his hands and stomp his feet. The next song used bells and while cradling Alex’s head he reached for the bells and let me know he didn’t need me to cradle him (he is incredibly strong IMHO). So I let him sit up on his own in my lap as they came to collect the bells and hand out our scarves for the next song. As one of the only Dads in the room of course they decided to give me the hot pink scarf J. Alex LOVED the scarf. Even though he was sitting in my lap I didn’t need to see his eyes to know he was tracking the brightly colored scarf as his whole head was moving back and forth as I waved it in front of him. We ended on “You are my sunshine”, a song Alex is very familiar with thanks to big sister Julia and despite my complete inability to carry a note once again Alex was all smiles.
During the musical play date I got to talk to other parents who shared their experiences (my favorite was the mom who told me how the doctors had told her that her son had no vision as her fifteen month old walked around obstacles and found and picked up the ball he wanted to play with).
While I came hoping to find support from talking with other parents experiencing a similar situation, the greatest thing I took away from this day was the smiles and pure joy I saw from the kids as they danced, played and laughed. They were truly inspirational.
Alex and I ended the day by taking a tour of the Governor Morehead Preschool. It is honestly an amazing facility with a great emphasis on improving current vision and enhancing other senses. Alex really liked the dark room where they use backlights and light boards. They had a staggering amount of resources and activities. The facilities were great, but even more impressive was the staff and how apparent it was how much they care for the kids and how hard they work.
I want to end my first post by thanking Erica for putting together this blog and by thanking everyone else for their thoughts and prayer, it has been greatly appreciated.